how to handle my wife complaining?

my wife has problem with her stomach last 1,5 years ago,after the several lab test n endoscopy finally doctor said she had tumor in the digest system.so she has to go for surgery to removed out the things.after 10 days of surgery she take some test to find out if any problems is still there n last results is very good.i ask to the doctor if any medical treatment she needs after the surgery,as the doctor give me information that my wife no need to take any treatment, she can live as a normal n she needs only eats with time to time.what i’am to ask why she used to complaining everyday after or before she had meals that its feel paining in the side of stomach,even last 4 months ago she go for medical cheek up n the results is also good. for ur information my wife is 39 years old n she’s very active as house wife n we’ve 2 kids with 7 n 3 years old. kindly i can get some good answers from ur side. thanx n rgards

Two things:

1. The doctor cannot guarantee your wife is 100% fine. Mistakes and oversights happen. Tumors are serious and a sign that cancerous activity is happening in her body. To resolve this possibility, take her for a second opinion/diagnosis, preferably a gastroenterologist. A gynecologist visit may be needed, too.

2. She is psychosomatic and overstressed. She was used to getting attention and care when she had the stomach problem, so she can keep that attention by showing she is in pain. The pain may well be real to her, but could also have no direct physical cause. To resolve this, a therapist or psychiatrist may be best; or, trying to get her female relatives to talk to her (her mother and sisters, not yours).

Finally, for upset stomachs, ginger/aadrak tea is very good. Bhang improves appetite and settles the stomach, but this may not be appropriate for her. She must avoid caffeine, very salty or fatty foods as well as they are demanding on the digestive system.

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